The tight-knit community of Portage la Prairie, Manitoba, is reeling after the heartbreaking death of Constable Evan Lilley, a respected officer of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police (RCMP) and proud member of the Dakota Tipi First Nation. Evan tragically died by suicide this past weekend, leaving behind a legacy of service, compassion, and leadership that touched countless lives.

A Life of Service and Dedication

Evan was more than a law enforcement officer; he was a gentle giant whose kindness, humility, and quiet strength left a lasting impression on everyone who knew him. Beyond his duties with the RCMP, he carried a deep sense of responsibility toward his community and his people.

In 2019, he made history as the first male Youth Chief of the Southern Chiefs’ Organization, inspiring Indigenous youth across Manitoba with his leadership, courage, and vision for a brighter future. His work in this role was widely praised for bridging generations and giving young voices a powerful platform.

“Everyone who knew Youth Chief Lilley is better for knowing him,” said Grand Chief Jerry Daniels of the Southern Chiefs’ Organization. “His passing is a heartbreaking loss to his family, loved ones, colleagues, Nation, and all who mourn the loss of this bright light.”

A Devoted Family Man

At the heart of Evan’s life was his family. He leaves behind his wife, Gabrielle, and their twin daughters, Elowen and Cedar, who were the center of his world. Friends and relatives remember him as a loving husband and devoted father who found joy in the small moments of family life. His role as a son, brother, and friend was equally cherished, and his absence leaves a profound void in the lives of all who loved him.

Community in Grief

The City of Portage la Prairie joined the Dakota Tipi First Nation and the RCMP in expressing condolences to Evan’s family and friends. In his honor, flags at City Hall were lowered to half-mast, a symbolic gesture recognizing his service and the depth of the loss.

Mayor Sharilyn Knox spoke candidly about the broader impact of Evan’s passing, reminding the community of the invisible burdens people often carry:

“Moments like this remind us that mental health is not something separate from public service, leadership, or community — it is a part of all of us. Behind every badge, every title, every role in our community, there is a person who may be carrying more than we know. Let this be a call to hold one another closer, to ask the hard questions, and to listen without judgment.”

Raising Awareness on Mental Health

Constable Lilley’s tragic death has reignited critical conversations around mental health within law enforcement and Indigenous communities. Advocates are calling for a greater culture of openness, support, and compassion, so that officers, veterans, and civilians alike can seek help without fear of stigma or repercussions.

Support Resources

 For those in need, several crisis lines and support services are available:

• 988 Suicide Crisis Helpline (Canada, 24/7): Call or text anytime.

• VAC Assistance Service (for RCMP members, veterans, and families): 1-800-268-7708.

• Kids Help Phone (for youth): 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868.

• Hope for Wellness Help Line (for First Nations, Inuit, and Métis individuals): 1-855-242-3310.

Remembering Evan Lilley

Though Evan’s life was cut short, his memory will endure in the many people he uplifted, mentored, and protected. Tributes pouring in describe him as “everything a truly good human being could be,” a man who carried both strength and gentleness in equal measure.

His family, friends, colleagues, and community now face an immeasurable loss, but they hold tightly to the love, joy, and legacy he leaves behind.