The Paraparaumu College community and the wider Kapiti Coast are mourning the heartbreaking loss of Mr. Merrick Stein, the highly respected Head of Music at Paraparaumu College, who passed away unexpectedly. With a career in education that spanned over 37 years—35 of them dedicated to Paraparaumu College—Merrick’s passing marks the end of an extraordinary era.

A Life Devoted to Music and Education

Since joining Paraparaumu College in 1988, Merrick Stein became a transformative figure in the school’s arts and cultural life. His unwavering commitment, talent, and passion for music education earned him admiration from students, staff, and the wider community. He played a central role in developing the music department into a thriving hub of creativity, excellence, and student empowerment.

Over the decades, Merrick introduced countless young people to the joy of music, helping them find their voice and confidence through instruments, performance, and collaboration. For many, he was far more than a teacher—he was a mentor, a coach, and an inspiration. Generations of students credit Merrick with instilling in them a lifelong love for music and a belief in their own potential.

A Legacy of Performance, Purpose, and Passion

Among Merrick’s most memorable contributions were the school talent quests and roadshows, which became annual highlights and celebrated not only student talent but the spirit of the school community. His attention to detail, creative direction, and relentless pursuit of excellence turned these events into powerful platforms for student expression.

In later years, Merrick led the coordination of the Charity Concert Series at the prestigious Southwards Theatre, raising funds for important causes including CanTeen, Mary Potter Hospice, and the NZ Breast Cancer Foundation. These concerts not only showcased the immense musical talent of his students but reflected Merrick’s deeply held belief in the power of music to bring about positive change.

A Teacher, a Leader, a Friend

Merrick was known for his warm, approachable nature and his genuine investment in the success and wellbeing of his students. He guided learners through demanding rehearsals and personal struggles alike, always offering encouragement, patience, and wisdom. His colleagues describe him as a cornerstone of the school—someone whose influence extended far beyond the music department.

Outside the classroom, Merrick was a devoted husband to his beloved wife, Sue, and a proud and loving family man. His deep love for his whānau was evident in everything he did, and he often spoke about the joy he found in both his family life and professional calling.

Community Tributes and Collective Grief

Since news of Merrick’s passing broke, hundreds of messages and tributes have poured in from former and current students, colleagues, families, and friends. Many recall the life-changing impact he had on their confidence, creativity, and character. From heartfelt social media posts to touching stories shared at the school, it is clear that Merrick Stein shaped the lives of many.

One former student wrote:

“Merrick believed in me when I didn’t believe in myself. He gave me the stage, and in doing so, he gave me a voice. I will never forget what he gave us all.”

Honoring a Lasting Legacy

Paraparaumu College has expressed its deepest aroha to the Stein whānau and has begun planning ways to honor Merrick’s memory. A special memorial event will be organized in the coming weeks, and the school encourages the community to share stories, memories, and tributes to help celebrate his extraordinary life and career.

In a statement, the school wrote:

“Merrick Stein was more than a teacher—he was the heart of our music department, a guiding light for our students, and a beloved colleague and friend. His legacy will echo in every note played, every song sung, and every student he inspired.”

Farewell, Merrick Stein

Though his physical presence is no longer with us, the music he nurtured—and the lives he enriched—will continue to carry his spirit forward. Merrick Stein’s life was a testament to the power of passion, purpose, and people. He will be remembered not only as an outstanding educator and musician but as a man who gave so much of himself to the betterment of others.

Haere rā, Merrick. You will be dearly missed, but never forgotten.